Growing as a person often comes across to people as something that just comes naturally over time. The fact that people do grow with time is something that you can’t really dispute; however slow or fast they progress as persons is often attributed to the person themselves. Sometimes a person’s growth will be decided for them by the circumstances which they might find themselves in. I think it’s true though for when the person themselves need to decide to improve.
A lot of people see the idea of self-help as a sign of weakness. They might think of it as a sign that someone’s looking for an excuse for them under-performing or failing. For the people that think like that I’m glad that they’re comfortable enough in their own skin not to need help. Some people however need a little bit of help in that department. The changes for self-improvement can come in many forms and they don’t need to be as drastic as some people might think. Self-improvement can start at such small things as maybe trying to dress up a little bit better everyday. A change in the way you look is something that helps much more than people give it credit for. And some people might dismiss it as being vain but outside of some extreme cases I don’t see anything wrong with caring about the way you look. Of course the whole exercise should be one of self-reflection so if you start comparing the way you look to others then you’ve pretty much defeated the whole point of things.
Finding what you need to do to feel better about yourself is often a very personal experience. Making the decision to take that first step however is the most important part.